you determining when

[requested]

i have read some stuff on here about you determining and being the man about when you want sex or a hookup, and if she doesnt want to, you get up and leave or whatever, basically to let her know you set the pace etc....
well this girl that likes me are going to start hookinup probably, but shes not into sex until after a WHILE of dating, sooo do i do this same thing, or do i wait on her, or wait on her while hookin up with other chicks- whats the best way to handle this do you gusy think

 

[saki]

i have read some stuff on here about you determining and being the man about when you want sex or a hookup, and if she doesnt want to, you get up and leave or whatever, basically to let her know you set the pace etc....
well this girl that likes me are going to start hookinup probably, but shes not into sex until after a WHILE of dating, sooo do i do this same thing, or do i wait on her, or wait on her while hookin up with other chicks- whats the best way to handle this do you gusy think

Dude you need to read the bible on this stuff. I recommend reading Anti-dumps old posts, there are many other inspiring writers on here but I am partisan to his attitude because I relate best this way. Let me ask you something: without any social distortion; what do you feel your gut tells you to do? What does you inner man tell you? In other words; What do YOU want to do? and yes hook up with many other chicks, no ONS!

 

[requested]

yeah, we dated last year and apparently she still likes me, we did other stuff, she just doenst want a reputation as a slut, or "that" kinda girl" in school