“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i have read some stuff on here about you determining and being the man about when you want sex or a hookup, and if she doesnt want to, you get up and leave or whatever, basically to let her know you set the pace etc....
well this girl that likes me are going to start hookinup probably, but shes not into sex until after a WHILE of dating, sooo do i do this same thing, or do i wait on her, or wait on her while hookin up with other chicks- whats the best way to handle this do you gusy think
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i have read some stuff on here about you determining and being the man about when you want sex or a hookup, and if she doesnt want to, you get up and leave or whatever, basically to let her know you set the pace etc....
well this girl that likes me are going to start hookinup probably, but shes not into sex until after a WHILE of dating, sooo do i do this same thing, or do i wait on her, or wait on her while hookin up with other chicks- whats the best way to handle this do you gusy think
Dude you need to read the bible on this stuff. I recommend reading Anti-dumps old posts, there are many other inspiring writers on here but I am partisan to his attitude because I relate best this way. Let me ask you something: without any social distortion; what do you feel your gut tells you to do? What does you inner man tell you? In other words; What do YOU want to do? and yes hook up with many other chicks, no ONS!
 

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yeah, we dated last year and apparently she still likes me, we did other stuff, she just doenst want a reputation as a slut, or "that" kinda girl" in school
 
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