"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i have read some stuff on here about you determining and being the man about when you want sex or a hookup, and if she doesnt want to, you get up and leave or whatever, basically to let her know you set the pace etc....
well this girl that likes me are going to start hookinup probably, but shes not into sex until after a WHILE of dating, sooo do i do this same thing, or do i wait on her, or wait on her while hookin up with other chicks- whats the best way to handle this do you gusy think
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i have read some stuff on here about you determining and being the man about when you want sex or a hookup, and if she doesnt want to, you get up and leave or whatever, basically to let her know you set the pace etc....
well this girl that likes me are going to start hookinup probably, but shes not into sex until after a WHILE of dating, sooo do i do this same thing, or do i wait on her, or wait on her while hookin up with other chicks- whats the best way to handle this do you gusy think
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Dude you need to read the bible on this stuff. I recommend reading Anti-dumps old posts, there are many other inspiring writers on here but I am partisan to his attitude because I relate best this way. Let me ask you something: without any social distortion; what do you feel your gut tells you to do? What does you inner man tell you? In other words; What do YOU want to do? and yes hook up with many other chicks, no ONS!
 
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yeah, we dated last year and apparently she still likes me, we did other stuff, she just doenst want a reputation as a slut, or "that" kinda girl" in school
 
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