You can't be alpha as possible and be in a relationship

[sosousage]

I think a lot of the people on this site think alpha = go to gym, take MMA classes.

Life isn't that simple, especially since we're all bound by the law.

is Richard your real name

because I thought yes at first

and now I realise theres a word RICH'ard in it, its very congruent with your money obsesion

 

[fastlife]

when you start living for yourself, i mean truly living for yourself and actually living life, the whole alpha/beta dichotomy goes away. its something that becomes the least of your concerns

Exactly. It’s one of those paradoxical things: An alpha would never worry about whether they were acting alpha or not or what impression they made on 1 girl out of 4 billion.

Starting out, it’s a useful distinction. But at a certain point, you have to drop it. It keeps you in reaction to external stimuli in hopes to gain validation (Alpha Behavior from a Beta Mindset). Do what’s authentic to you and what’s aligned with your purposes (but put in the work & experimentation & use whatever labels you need to figure out what those are).

 

[Urbanyst]

I don't care about being alpha. I care about making MONEY and having access to HOT women for dating, sex and relationships.

 

[marmel75]

People constantly worrying about being alpha just dont get it and probably never will.

 

[wifehunter]

"You can't be alpha as possible and be in a relationship"

how about:

 

[Roober]

sigh...

Nothing else really to say...