"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You are what you eat, you ARE what you date

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hell naww, would never fight over a broad, she is the idiot not the victim.
 

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Sadly that post wasn't as good as I hoped it would be, only because I was hoping for something a bit broader. Don't get me wrong TTEOT, great idea- it's just I've never witnessed the above scenario.

What I would say is that "You are what you date" could be a great bit of advice if, say, you applied it to AFCs and guys who think they are great with girls because they date a lot of 4s and 5s. If you are screwing a 5, you are a 5? ANyway, I'll leave that post to you, it's your idea:)

Bad example, wicked advice! That's what i'm trying to say!
 

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Originally posted by Cloud-uk
Sadly that post wasn't as good as I hoped it would be, only because I was hoping for something a bit broader. Don't get me wrong TTEOT, great idea- it's just I've never witnessed the above scenario.

What I would say is that "You are what you date" could be a great bit of advice if, say, you applied it to AFCs and guys who think they are great with girls because they date a lot of 4s and 5s. If you are screwing a 5, you are a 5? ANyway, I'll leave that post to you, it's your idea:)

Bad example, wicked advice! That's what i'm trying to say!
I see that my title is misleading. Let me change this.

This will be put udner a new thread "Don't be a hero". I think this makes more sense. Thanks for pointing this out.
 
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