"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You are what you eat, you ARE what you date

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hell naww, would never fight over a broad, she is the idiot not the victim.
 

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Sadly that post wasn't as good as I hoped it would be, only because I was hoping for something a bit broader. Don't get me wrong TTEOT, great idea- it's just I've never witnessed the above scenario.

What I would say is that "You are what you date" could be a great bit of advice if, say, you applied it to AFCs and guys who think they are great with girls because they date a lot of 4s and 5s. If you are screwing a 5, you are a 5? ANyway, I'll leave that post to you, it's your idea:)

Bad example, wicked advice! That's what i'm trying to say!
 

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Originally posted by Cloud-uk
Sadly that post wasn't as good as I hoped it would be, only because I was hoping for something a bit broader. Don't get me wrong TTEOT, great idea- it's just I've never witnessed the above scenario.

What I would say is that "You are what you date" could be a great bit of advice if, say, you applied it to AFCs and guys who think they are great with girls because they date a lot of 4s and 5s. If you are screwing a 5, you are a 5? ANyway, I'll leave that post to you, it's your idea:)

Bad example, wicked advice! That's what i'm trying to say!
I see that my title is misleading. Let me change this.

This will be put udner a new thread "Don't be a hero". I think this makes more sense. Thanks for pointing this out.
 
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