TillTheEndOfTime
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You are what you eat, you ARE what you date
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
On_the_Top
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Hell naww, would never fight over a broad, she is the idiot not the victim.
Cloud-uk
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Sadly that post wasn't as good as I hoped it would be, only because I was hoping for something a bit broader. Don't get me wrong TTEOT, great idea- it's just I've never witnessed the above scenario.
What I would say is that "You are what you date" could be a great bit of advice if, say, you applied it to AFCs and guys who think they are great with girls because they date a lot of 4s and 5s. If you are screwing a 5, you are a 5? ANyway, I'll leave that post to you, it's your idea
Bad example, wicked advice! That's what i'm trying to say!
What I would say is that "You are what you date" could be a great bit of advice if, say, you applied it to AFCs and guys who think they are great with girls because they date a lot of 4s and 5s. If you are screwing a 5, you are a 5? ANyway, I'll leave that post to you, it's your idea
Bad example, wicked advice! That's what i'm trying to say!
TillTheEndOfTime
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I see that my title is misleading. Let me change this.Originally posted by Cloud-uk
Sadly that post wasn't as good as I hoped it would be, only because I was hoping for something a bit broader. Don't get me wrong TTEOT, great idea- it's just I've never witnessed the above scenario.
What I would say is that "You are what you date" could be a great bit of advice if, say, you applied it to AFCs and guys who think they are great with girls because they date a lot of 4s and 5s. If you are screwing a 5, you are a 5? ANyway, I'll leave that post to you, it's your idea
Bad example, wicked advice! That's what i'm trying to say!
This will be put udner a new thread "Don't be a hero". I think this makes more sense. Thanks for pointing this out.