"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
"You are a laddies man"
- Thread starter amoka
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
LA_Chico said:
hahahaha penis man hahahaha:kick:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ll Principe
Don Juan
If a guy tells you that you are a ladies man he is giving you an ego boost and see's you as a symbol of someone he may strive to be.
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
Ll Principe
Don Juan
I have news for you... before you came here, I bet you were dating a ladies man, and a ladies man doesnt have to be a "player."
He can be someone that you can respect and he will respect you and knows how to treat/handle a woman. If you wouldnt date him because he knows about girls, than shall you be played by him.
Jealous? If you jealous, Im sure the ladies man will see this anyway and either exploit your weakness or reject you. Either way you lose.
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
Uh.....no. I have a successful love life, thank you, and any problems that come up I discuss with my boyfriend, not with strangers on some internet forum. I'm on this forum because I find it amusing. I don't even know where that "obviously" part of your statement came from.Ll Principe said:
I was thinking about players, my bad. So your definition of a ladies man is a chivalrous guy? Because basic chivalry never goes out of fashion.Ll Principe said:
By the way, "nice" job making it sound like I have absolutely no control over who I date and throw myself at any man who'll scrape me off the ground...how cordial.
Ll Principe
Don Juan
Onward...
Your bad= okay accepted.
Did you see me give a definition? Did you see the words.. "DEFINITION?" I simply made a brief statement on what a ladies man entails.
How cordial indeed, your on this site for a reason, I dont know you but from your aggressive nature I sense disturbance amongst yourself.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.