"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"You are a laddies man"
- Thread starter amoka
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
LA_Chico said:
hahahaha penis man hahahaha:kick:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ll Principe
Don Juan
If a guy tells you that you are a ladies man he is giving you an ego boost and see's you as a symbol of someone he may strive to be.
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
Ll Principe
Don Juan
I have news for you... before you came here, I bet you were dating a ladies man, and a ladies man doesnt have to be a "player."
He can be someone that you can respect and he will respect you and knows how to treat/handle a woman. If you wouldnt date him because he knows about girls, than shall you be played by him.
Jealous? If you jealous, Im sure the ladies man will see this anyway and either exploit your weakness or reject you. Either way you lose.
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
Uh.....no. I have a successful love life, thank you, and any problems that come up I discuss with my boyfriend, not with strangers on some internet forum. I'm on this forum because I find it amusing. I don't even know where that "obviously" part of your statement came from.Ll Principe said:
I was thinking about players, my bad. So your definition of a ladies man is a chivalrous guy? Because basic chivalry never goes out of fashion.Ll Principe said:
By the way, "nice" job making it sound like I have absolutely no control over who I date and throw myself at any man who'll scrape me off the ground...how cordial.
Ll Principe
Don Juan
Onward...
Your bad= okay accepted.
Did you see me give a definition? Did you see the words.. "DEFINITION?" I simply made a brief statement on what a ladies man entails.
How cordial indeed, your on this site for a reason, I dont know you but from your aggressive nature I sense disturbance amongst yourself.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.