"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"You are a laddies man"
- Thread starter amoka
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
LA_Chico said:
hahahaha penis man hahahaha:kick:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Ll Principe
Don Juan
If a guy tells you that you are a ladies man he is giving you an ego boost and see's you as a symbol of someone he may strive to be.
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
Ll Principe
Don Juan
I have news for you... before you came here, I bet you were dating a ladies man, and a ladies man doesnt have to be a "player."
He can be someone that you can respect and he will respect you and knows how to treat/handle a woman. If you wouldnt date him because he knows about girls, than shall you be played by him.
Jealous? If you jealous, Im sure the ladies man will see this anyway and either exploit your weakness or reject you. Either way you lose.
girl_in_a_boy_forum
Senior Don Juan
Uh.....no. I have a successful love life, thank you, and any problems that come up I discuss with my boyfriend, not with strangers on some internet forum. I'm on this forum because I find it amusing. I don't even know where that "obviously" part of your statement came from.Ll Principe said:
I was thinking about players, my bad. So your definition of a ladies man is a chivalrous guy? Because basic chivalry never goes out of fashion.Ll Principe said:
By the way, "nice" job making it sound like I have absolutely no control over who I date and throw myself at any man who'll scrape me off the ground...how cordial.
Ll Principe
Don Juan
Onward...
Your bad= okay accepted.
Did you see me give a definition? Did you see the words.. "DEFINITION?" I simply made a brief statement on what a ladies man entails.
How cordial indeed, your on this site for a reason, I dont know you but from your aggressive nature I sense disturbance amongst yourself.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.