"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yolo and how it involves DJs

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There's no doubt that #yolo has been the worst saying of the year... Just because you only live once that doesn't mean you should go fvck someone without a condom, yolo tries to get you do things your not comfortable with. And that's what us DJs are all about!

The point of being a DJ isn't getting good with women or having options.. It's about improving yourself and becoming the best you you can be. It's about improving in all areas of life, not just dating. This means school and work too. It's also about having fun and being happy with who you are... That's where women come in, we don't need women... We see them as a was of having fun.

So don't go out there thinking you need women to have fun, because you don't, go out there and have fun! THATS what being a DJ is really about. The point of yolo was to give you an excuse to do it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NorwegianDJ

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ladiesman217 said:
Haha yes, that's what inspired this post. did you write that?
Tommy wrote it. I should have an article prepared by the end of this week ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thats a damn good article, really enjoyed reading it :)
 
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