"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yolo and how it involves DJs

ladiesman217

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There's no doubt that #yolo has been the worst saying of the year... Just because you only live once that doesn't mean you should go fvck someone without a condom, yolo tries to get you do things your not comfortable with. And that's what us DJs are all about!

The point of being a DJ isn't getting good with women or having options.. It's about improving yourself and becoming the best you you can be. It's about improving in all areas of life, not just dating. This means school and work too. It's also about having fun and being happy with who you are... That's where women come in, we don't need women... We see them as a was of having fun.

So don't go out there thinking you need women to have fun, because you don't, go out there and have fun! THATS what being a DJ is really about. The point of yolo was to give you an excuse to do it
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NorwegianDJ

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ladiesman217 said:
Haha yes, that's what inspired this post. did you write that?
Tommy wrote it. I should have an article prepared by the end of this week ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mike

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Thats a damn good article, really enjoyed reading it :)
 
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