"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yolo and how it involves DJs

ladiesman217

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There's no doubt that #yolo has been the worst saying of the year... Just because you only live once that doesn't mean you should go fvck someone without a condom, yolo tries to get you do things your not comfortable with. And that's what us DJs are all about!

The point of being a DJ isn't getting good with women or having options.. It's about improving yourself and becoming the best you you can be. It's about improving in all areas of life, not just dating. This means school and work too. It's also about having fun and being happy with who you are... That's where women come in, we don't need women... We see them as a was of having fun.

So don't go out there thinking you need women to have fun, because you don't, go out there and have fun! THATS what being a DJ is really about. The point of yolo was to give you an excuse to do it
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NorwegianDJ

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ladiesman217 said:
Haha yes, that's what inspired this post. did you write that?
Tommy wrote it. I should have an article prepared by the end of this week ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mike

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Thats a damn good article, really enjoyed reading it :)
 
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