"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yolo and how it involves DJs

ladiesman217

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There's no doubt that #yolo has been the worst saying of the year... Just because you only live once that doesn't mean you should go fvck someone without a condom, yolo tries to get you do things your not comfortable with. And that's what us DJs are all about!

The point of being a DJ isn't getting good with women or having options.. It's about improving yourself and becoming the best you you can be. It's about improving in all areas of life, not just dating. This means school and work too. It's also about having fun and being happy with who you are... That's where women come in, we don't need women... We see them as a was of having fun.

So don't go out there thinking you need women to have fun, because you don't, go out there and have fun! THATS what being a DJ is really about. The point of yolo was to give you an excuse to do it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NorwegianDJ

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ladiesman217 said:
Haha yes, that's what inspired this post. did you write that?
Tommy wrote it. I should have an article prepared by the end of this week ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Mike

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Thats a damn good article, really enjoyed reading it :)
 
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