Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Shezz said:Ok, i think its time we sorted this out once and for all, guys who are beefing - you may to some extent THINK you have game, you may even delude yourself into thinking your a DON JUAN, fact is - no one on this site nor anyone on any other site is better/worse of a man. Sure, some have better pick-up skills, some have better business skills, but at the end of the day guys - we are men! Take off the flowered dress MuayThai, Egoist...lose the Ego, you guys sound like a couple of school boy *****es, jealous because some guy. YES a guy - ie OUR GENDER is doing something to try and better himself - im not saying he looks cool, im not saying the way he walks is going to pick up chicks, because quite frankly i think he looks like an halfbake. But what he is attempting to prove is the POWER behind Body Language, that slow..steady walk, like a king walking across the room to his thrown -- he dosnt care what anyone thinks...all he knows is that what he wants...hes going to take. Its that type of ATTITUDE that gets him the girls, that frame he possesses, not the silly walk or the stupid glasses - HIS MINDSET. Think James Dean!!! Think Elvis Presley!! Low Relaxed eye lids, messy hair like he just finished fvcking an HB9, slow steady steps like he just woke up - in no rush to go anywhere, thats the SEXUAL STATE and if your NOT getting laid then its probably the reason why!!!
Women want a man, not someone who parades about like a badboy...but a man who knows what he wants, knows how to convey that and takes it...by all means necessary...
Sarge On...
LOSE MY EGO? what the hell are you, some kind of a gullible AFC?Shezz said:Ok, i think its time we sorted this out once and for all, guys who are beefing - you may to some extent THINK you have game, you may even delude yourself into thinking your a DON JUAN, fact is - no one on this site nor anyone on any other site is better/worse of a man. Sure, some have better pick-up skills, some have better business skills, but at the end of the day guys - we are men! Take off the flowered dress MuayThai, Egoist...lose the Ego, you guys sound like a couple of school boy *****es, jealous because some guy. YES a guy - ie OUR GENDER is doing something to try and better himself - im not saying he looks cool, im not saying the way he walks is going to pick up chicks, because quite frankly i think he looks like an halfbake. But what he is attempting to prove is the POWER behind Body Language, that slow..steady walk, like a king walking across the room to his thrown -- he dosnt care what anyone thinks...all he knows is that what he wants...hes going to take. Its that type of ATTITUDE that gets him the girls, that frame he possesses, not the silly walk or the stupid glasses - HIS MINDSET. Think James Dean!!! Think Elvis Presley!! Low Relaxed eye lids, messy hair like he just finished fvcking an HB9, slow steady steps like he just woke up - in no rush to go anywhere, thats the SEXUAL STATE and if your NOT getting laid then its probably the reason why!!!
Women want a man, not someone who parades about like a badboy...but a man who knows what he wants, knows how to convey that and takes it...by all means necessary...
Sarge On...
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
are sure they were the ones moving slower or was it that when you seen them you became soo aroused and it just seemed like time was slowing downbbestar said:I saw a group of 3 girls passing by where I work, and I swear it looked like they all went through some sort of time warp field cause they all started moving in super slow motion..
I was like wtf and then in a few seconds accelerated.
THe next time your in the mall or social setting, all of a sudden walk slow then super slow walking.. Believe me you will get attention like no other![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.