She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Shezz said:Ok, i think its time we sorted this out once and for all, guys who are beefing - you may to some extent THINK you have game, you may even delude yourself into thinking your a DON JUAN, fact is - no one on this site nor anyone on any other site is better/worse of a man. Sure, some have better pick-up skills, some have better business skills, but at the end of the day guys - we are men! Take off the flowered dress MuayThai, Egoist...lose the Ego, you guys sound like a couple of school boy *****es, jealous because some guy. YES a guy - ie OUR GENDER is doing something to try and better himself - im not saying he looks cool, im not saying the way he walks is going to pick up chicks, because quite frankly i think he looks like an halfbake. But what he is attempting to prove is the POWER behind Body Language, that slow..steady walk, like a king walking across the room to his thrown -- he dosnt care what anyone thinks...all he knows is that what he wants...hes going to take. Its that type of ATTITUDE that gets him the girls, that frame he possesses, not the silly walk or the stupid glasses - HIS MINDSET. Think James Dean!!! Think Elvis Presley!! Low Relaxed eye lids, messy hair like he just finished fvcking an HB9, slow steady steps like he just woke up - in no rush to go anywhere, thats the SEXUAL STATE and if your NOT getting laid then its probably the reason why!!!
Women want a man, not someone who parades about like a badboy...but a man who knows what he wants, knows how to convey that and takes it...by all means necessary...
Sarge On...
LOSE MY EGO? what the hell are you, some kind of a gullible AFC?Shezz said:Ok, i think its time we sorted this out once and for all, guys who are beefing - you may to some extent THINK you have game, you may even delude yourself into thinking your a DON JUAN, fact is - no one on this site nor anyone on any other site is better/worse of a man. Sure, some have better pick-up skills, some have better business skills, but at the end of the day guys - we are men! Take off the flowered dress MuayThai, Egoist...lose the Ego, you guys sound like a couple of school boy *****es, jealous because some guy. YES a guy - ie OUR GENDER is doing something to try and better himself - im not saying he looks cool, im not saying the way he walks is going to pick up chicks, because quite frankly i think he looks like an halfbake. But what he is attempting to prove is the POWER behind Body Language, that slow..steady walk, like a king walking across the room to his thrown -- he dosnt care what anyone thinks...all he knows is that what he wants...hes going to take. Its that type of ATTITUDE that gets him the girls, that frame he possesses, not the silly walk or the stupid glasses - HIS MINDSET. Think James Dean!!! Think Elvis Presley!! Low Relaxed eye lids, messy hair like he just finished fvcking an HB9, slow steady steps like he just woke up - in no rush to go anywhere, thats the SEXUAL STATE and if your NOT getting laid then its probably the reason why!!!
Women want a man, not someone who parades about like a badboy...but a man who knows what he wants, knows how to convey that and takes it...by all means necessary...
Sarge On...
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
are sure they were the ones moving slower or was it that when you seen them you became soo aroused and it just seemed like time was slowing downbbestar said:I saw a group of 3 girls passing by where I work, and I swear it looked like they all went through some sort of time warp field cause they all started moving in super slow motion..
I was like wtf and then in a few seconds accelerated.
THe next time your in the mall or social setting, all of a sudden walk slow then super slow walking.. Believe me you will get attention like no other![]()
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.