You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Shezz said:Ok, i think its time we sorted this out once and for all, guys who are beefing - you may to some extent THINK you have game, you may even delude yourself into thinking your a DON JUAN, fact is - no one on this site nor anyone on any other site is better/worse of a man. Sure, some have better pick-up skills, some have better business skills, but at the end of the day guys - we are men! Take off the flowered dress MuayThai, Egoist...lose the Ego, you guys sound like a couple of school boy *****es, jealous because some guy. YES a guy - ie OUR GENDER is doing something to try and better himself - im not saying he looks cool, im not saying the way he walks is going to pick up chicks, because quite frankly i think he looks like an halfbake. But what he is attempting to prove is the POWER behind Body Language, that slow..steady walk, like a king walking across the room to his thrown -- he dosnt care what anyone thinks...all he knows is that what he wants...hes going to take. Its that type of ATTITUDE that gets him the girls, that frame he possesses, not the silly walk or the stupid glasses - HIS MINDSET. Think James Dean!!! Think Elvis Presley!! Low Relaxed eye lids, messy hair like he just finished fvcking an HB9, slow steady steps like he just woke up - in no rush to go anywhere, thats the SEXUAL STATE and if your NOT getting laid then its probably the reason why!!!
Women want a man, not someone who parades about like a badboy...but a man who knows what he wants, knows how to convey that and takes it...by all means necessary...
Sarge On...
LOSE MY EGO? what the hell are you, some kind of a gullible AFC?Shezz said:Ok, i think its time we sorted this out once and for all, guys who are beefing - you may to some extent THINK you have game, you may even delude yourself into thinking your a DON JUAN, fact is - no one on this site nor anyone on any other site is better/worse of a man. Sure, some have better pick-up skills, some have better business skills, but at the end of the day guys - we are men! Take off the flowered dress MuayThai, Egoist...lose the Ego, you guys sound like a couple of school boy *****es, jealous because some guy. YES a guy - ie OUR GENDER is doing something to try and better himself - im not saying he looks cool, im not saying the way he walks is going to pick up chicks, because quite frankly i think he looks like an halfbake. But what he is attempting to prove is the POWER behind Body Language, that slow..steady walk, like a king walking across the room to his thrown -- he dosnt care what anyone thinks...all he knows is that what he wants...hes going to take. Its that type of ATTITUDE that gets him the girls, that frame he possesses, not the silly walk or the stupid glasses - HIS MINDSET. Think James Dean!!! Think Elvis Presley!! Low Relaxed eye lids, messy hair like he just finished fvcking an HB9, slow steady steps like he just woke up - in no rush to go anywhere, thats the SEXUAL STATE and if your NOT getting laid then its probably the reason why!!!
Women want a man, not someone who parades about like a badboy...but a man who knows what he wants, knows how to convey that and takes it...by all means necessary...
Sarge On...
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
are sure they were the ones moving slower or was it that when you seen them you became soo aroused and it just seemed like time was slowing downbbestar said:I saw a group of 3 girls passing by where I work, and I swear it looked like they all went through some sort of time warp field cause they all started moving in super slow motion..
I was like wtf and then in a few seconds accelerated.
THe next time your in the mall or social setting, all of a sudden walk slow then super slow walking.. Believe me you will get attention like no other![]()
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.