You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Shezz said:Ok, i think its time we sorted this out once and for all, guys who are beefing - you may to some extent THINK you have game, you may even delude yourself into thinking your a DON JUAN, fact is - no one on this site nor anyone on any other site is better/worse of a man. Sure, some have better pick-up skills, some have better business skills, but at the end of the day guys - we are men! Take off the flowered dress MuayThai, Egoist...lose the Ego, you guys sound like a couple of school boy *****es, jealous because some guy. YES a guy - ie OUR GENDER is doing something to try and better himself - im not saying he looks cool, im not saying the way he walks is going to pick up chicks, because quite frankly i think he looks like an halfbake. But what he is attempting to prove is the POWER behind Body Language, that slow..steady walk, like a king walking across the room to his thrown -- he dosnt care what anyone thinks...all he knows is that what he wants...hes going to take. Its that type of ATTITUDE that gets him the girls, that frame he possesses, not the silly walk or the stupid glasses - HIS MINDSET. Think James Dean!!! Think Elvis Presley!! Low Relaxed eye lids, messy hair like he just finished fvcking an HB9, slow steady steps like he just woke up - in no rush to go anywhere, thats the SEXUAL STATE and if your NOT getting laid then its probably the reason why!!!
Women want a man, not someone who parades about like a badboy...but a man who knows what he wants, knows how to convey that and takes it...by all means necessary...
Sarge On...
LOSE MY EGO? what the hell are you, some kind of a gullible AFC?Shezz said:Ok, i think its time we sorted this out once and for all, guys who are beefing - you may to some extent THINK you have game, you may even delude yourself into thinking your a DON JUAN, fact is - no one on this site nor anyone on any other site is better/worse of a man. Sure, some have better pick-up skills, some have better business skills, but at the end of the day guys - we are men! Take off the flowered dress MuayThai, Egoist...lose the Ego, you guys sound like a couple of school boy *****es, jealous because some guy. YES a guy - ie OUR GENDER is doing something to try and better himself - im not saying he looks cool, im not saying the way he walks is going to pick up chicks, because quite frankly i think he looks like an halfbake. But what he is attempting to prove is the POWER behind Body Language, that slow..steady walk, like a king walking across the room to his thrown -- he dosnt care what anyone thinks...all he knows is that what he wants...hes going to take. Its that type of ATTITUDE that gets him the girls, that frame he possesses, not the silly walk or the stupid glasses - HIS MINDSET. Think James Dean!!! Think Elvis Presley!! Low Relaxed eye lids, messy hair like he just finished fvcking an HB9, slow steady steps like he just woke up - in no rush to go anywhere, thats the SEXUAL STATE and if your NOT getting laid then its probably the reason why!!!
Women want a man, not someone who parades about like a badboy...but a man who knows what he wants, knows how to convey that and takes it...by all means necessary...
Sarge On...
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
are sure they were the ones moving slower or was it that when you seen them you became soo aroused and it just seemed like time was slowing downbbestar said:I saw a group of 3 girls passing by where I work, and I swear it looked like they all went through some sort of time warp field cause they all started moving in super slow motion..
I was like wtf and then in a few seconds accelerated.
THe next time your in the mall or social setting, all of a sudden walk slow then super slow walking.. Believe me you will get attention like no other![]()
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.