"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yet another question about my chick lol

toddC

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Okay, so heres a twist of events. We both decided we didn't want to be tied down but we were going to keep hangign to see where things went (I'm not sure if I told you guys this yet or what). So I'm sitting on my computer today miding my own business when this other chick (I haven't talked to her in a while) asks me and my friend to come out to dinner with her and her friend on wednesday. Now we both agree obviously however I told my friend to kinda tell the 1st girl about it. Do you think this is a good idea? Because it could work out that she becomes jealous and figures out I'm a wanted guy or she can just become angry or annoyed...what do you guys think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i tend to disagree...i think it will get the 1st girl a little jealous...anyone else?
 

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Why don't you just post this in the original thread you made about the girl, since no one knows what the hell you're talking about?
 

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Why don't you just post this in the original thread you made about the girl, since no one knows what the hell you're talking about?
i can't find it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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