"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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yet another question about my chick lol

toddC

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Okay, so heres a twist of events. We both decided we didn't want to be tied down but we were going to keep hangign to see where things went (I'm not sure if I told you guys this yet or what). So I'm sitting on my computer today miding my own business when this other chick (I haven't talked to her in a while) asks me and my friend to come out to dinner with her and her friend on wednesday. Now we both agree obviously however I told my friend to kinda tell the 1st girl about it. Do you think this is a good idea? Because it could work out that she becomes jealous and figures out I'm a wanted guy or she can just become angry or annoyed...what do you guys think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i tend to disagree...i think it will get the 1st girl a little jealous...anyone else?
 

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Why don't you just post this in the original thread you made about the girl, since no one knows what the hell you're talking about?
 

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Why don't you just post this in the original thread you made about the girl, since no one knows what the hell you're talking about?
i can't find it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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