"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yet another question about my chick lol

toddC

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Okay, so heres a twist of events. We both decided we didn't want to be tied down but we were going to keep hangign to see where things went (I'm not sure if I told you guys this yet or what). So I'm sitting on my computer today miding my own business when this other chick (I haven't talked to her in a while) asks me and my friend to come out to dinner with her and her friend on wednesday. Now we both agree obviously however I told my friend to kinda tell the 1st girl about it. Do you think this is a good idea? Because it could work out that she becomes jealous and figures out I'm a wanted guy or she can just become angry or annoyed...what do you guys think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i tend to disagree...i think it will get the 1st girl a little jealous...anyone else?
 

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Why don't you just post this in the original thread you made about the girl, since no one knows what the hell you're talking about?
 

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Why don't you just post this in the original thread you made about the girl, since no one knows what the hell you're talking about?
i can't find it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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