"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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yet another question about my chick lol

toddC

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Okay, so heres a twist of events. We both decided we didn't want to be tied down but we were going to keep hangign to see where things went (I'm not sure if I told you guys this yet or what). So I'm sitting on my computer today miding my own business when this other chick (I haven't talked to her in a while) asks me and my friend to come out to dinner with her and her friend on wednesday. Now we both agree obviously however I told my friend to kinda tell the 1st girl about it. Do you think this is a good idea? Because it could work out that she becomes jealous and figures out I'm a wanted guy or she can just become angry or annoyed...what do you guys think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i tend to disagree...i think it will get the 1st girl a little jealous...anyone else?
 

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Why don't you just post this in the original thread you made about the girl, since no one knows what the hell you're talking about?
 

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Why don't you just post this in the original thread you made about the girl, since no one knows what the hell you're talking about?
i can't find it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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