"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Vincent

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Hey.

Just reading through the old posts about it, and i didn't really find a definitive answer reg avatars.

Perhaps people would post some porn and you don't want to have to scan everyones avatars for approval, but why not make a rule, if its obscene you get banned? No warning nothing. I mean they might get away with it for a little while, but in all honesty, no one would waste there time. Especially if you made it that you could only get an avatar at like 100 or senior ranking.

Avatars are cool because they really accentuate the person, its kinda like Evil-roms nifty map of australia, that i'm sure took forever to do, but still.

Bandwith is also a major problem, but if there source is based somewhere else, is it really a huge concern

I would love to get an avatar, that would be totally kickin rad :D

Your lovable,
--Vincent
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Vincent

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Hey anyone wanna read my post? please?
 

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Originally posted by Vincent
Hey anyone wanna read my post? please?
Read it. If you've seen posts before and we STILL don't have avatars, take that as the answer. :D
 

Vincent

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aww now i'm depressed
 

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Yeah! Avatars would be FUN! Would it REALLY be such a big problem to have them?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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