"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Last friday I went out with my friends as dicussed in my previous thread We brought a camera recorder out that night and a couple times..while we were in wal-mart they were like "hey brian go get that chick #" I was like whatever so I approached the girls just for the camera if the camera wasnt there I know I woulda chickened out because we only picked out hot chicks and they were always with a friend or 2 (or more) and I didnt even care if I got rejected or not kuz it was just 4 sh1tz and the camera and I knew that if i didnt get this chicks number there were plenty more and I realized thats how I should feel anytime Im thinka about approching a girl I approachd like 5 girls and got no numbers but I didnt give a ****! I was having fun with my buddies and I can give a damn what those girls think..im sorry if this sounds more like rambling than an advice post but...I guess the point im tryn to get across is...Regret brings more pain that reject and sometime rejection doesnt hurt at all because there are more females out there than you can think...just talk to em if u dont get far so what...I know youve heard this 100 times before but this was my way of approaching ya know..for the camera and not giving a ****...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dope post man, nice to see that you overcame your fear. A long as your having fun. the outcome doesn't matter and it gets better... kinda like a catch 22
 
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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
dope post man, nice to see that you overcame your fear. A long as your having fun. the outcome doesn't matter and it gets better... kinda like a catch 22
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Except that a catch 22 involves multiple negative outcomes and this involves positive outcomes. But your point was well taken.
 
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yeah I did this a few times this summer, I was with my friends and I would just go up to some chicks and hit on them in the most absurd way, you know like using bad pickup lines and such. just saying everything in an overly smooth rediculous way. Its really funny when you go out and do it to get intentionally rejected. The girls are like "ummm ok.........". Good times, good laughs.
 
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