This girl that i have been friends with for a while now asked me if I like her. I told her that i like ber a while before though (before I bumped into this site). When i told her it didn't change anything between us though. Now i think she has doughts. Today when she asked me if i liked her I said, "Your just like every other girl. Why can i just have a girl for a friend. Am I so cursed with beauty?" She told me why do i have to take it for a joke. She wants a serious answer. What do i say? Yes or No. Oh and she has a lot of guy friends to. Just something i think that might be of some significance.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yes or No?
- Thread starter Da_Shogun
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
First of all do you have feelings for her, do want to be with her? If so, don't tell her that you do.
If you enjoy spending time with her, then spend time with her. Initiate physical contact with her and see how she responds. Start with hugs, cuddle with her. But Not for too long, just give her a taste of it.
Basically, let your actions speak. Let her wonder if you like her or not. If you just tell her you are taking away a huge bit of mystery that works so well to your advantage. Maybe act like you like her one day, cuddling, etc. Then the next time you are supposed to hang out, tell her you cant make it for whatever reason. It will really get her thinking about you.
Basically, No dont tell her you like her. If you are really just friends, then she wont be offended by seeing you with other girls. This also works really well to stir their emotions.
What a stupid question for a girl to ask, I mean what kind of a girl would give a guy a serious answer to that question? Other than "Not any more than a friend"
Andromax
If you enjoy spending time with her, then spend time with her. Initiate physical contact with her and see how she responds. Start with hugs, cuddle with her. But Not for too long, just give her a taste of it.
Basically, let your actions speak. Let her wonder if you like her or not. If you just tell her you are taking away a huge bit of mystery that works so well to your advantage. Maybe act like you like her one day, cuddling, etc. Then the next time you are supposed to hang out, tell her you cant make it for whatever reason. It will really get her thinking about you.
Basically, No dont tell her you like her. If you are really just friends, then she wont be offended by seeing you with other girls. This also works really well to stir their emotions.
What a stupid question for a girl to ask, I mean what kind of a girl would give a guy a serious answer to that question? Other than "Not any more than a friend"
Andromax
Tell her the truth! You should never hesitate in situations like this and the joking was inappropriate as it must have taken her a lot of courage to ask this question. She put her pride on the line and you should be willing to do the same.
Show some confidence and if you like her, tell her so. NEVER explain or excuse your answer, don't add anything more, just say it and wait to see what she says or does.
Whenever I've answered "yes" to this question, we end up making out immediately after.
Show some confidence and if you like her, tell her so. NEVER explain or excuse your answer, don't add anything more, just say it and wait to see what she says or does.
Whenever I've answered "yes" to this question, we end up making out immediately after.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SevenOne9
Don Juan
Personally, I'd just go for the kiss first and don't just 'say' you do (if you really do like her).
The DomMega
Don Juan
I'd just go "friends" w/ benefits on this one. If you've asked her the same question and nothings changed, then why should you change for her. You CAN have sex with your chick friends and have everything still be cool providing you don't over indulge. I wouldn't have a serious relationship with this girl. Well, I wouldn't have a serious relationship with anyone, but this girl in particular definitely not. She sounds a little too confused herself. I'd just take it for what it is, make some sex happen, and leave it at that. I mean what are chick friends to a player if you've never had sex with them at some point? 