This girl that i have been friends with for a while now asked me if I like her. I told her that i like ber a while before though (before I bumped into this site). When i told her it didn't change anything between us though. Now i think she has doughts. Today when she asked me if i liked her I said, "Your just like every other girl. Why can i just have a girl for a friend. Am I so cursed with beauty?" She told me why do i have to take it for a joke. She wants a serious answer. What do i say? Yes or No. Oh and she has a lot of guy friends to. Just something i think that might be of some significance.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yes or No?
- Thread starter Da_Shogun
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
First of all do you have feelings for her, do want to be with her? If so, don't tell her that you do.
If you enjoy spending time with her, then spend time with her. Initiate physical contact with her and see how she responds. Start with hugs, cuddle with her. But Not for too long, just give her a taste of it.
Basically, let your actions speak. Let her wonder if you like her or not. If you just tell her you are taking away a huge bit of mystery that works so well to your advantage. Maybe act like you like her one day, cuddling, etc. Then the next time you are supposed to hang out, tell her you cant make it for whatever reason. It will really get her thinking about you.
Basically, No dont tell her you like her. If you are really just friends, then she wont be offended by seeing you with other girls. This also works really well to stir their emotions.
What a stupid question for a girl to ask, I mean what kind of a girl would give a guy a serious answer to that question? Other than "Not any more than a friend"
Andromax
If you enjoy spending time with her, then spend time with her. Initiate physical contact with her and see how she responds. Start with hugs, cuddle with her. But Not for too long, just give her a taste of it.
Basically, let your actions speak. Let her wonder if you like her or not. If you just tell her you are taking away a huge bit of mystery that works so well to your advantage. Maybe act like you like her one day, cuddling, etc. Then the next time you are supposed to hang out, tell her you cant make it for whatever reason. It will really get her thinking about you.
Basically, No dont tell her you like her. If you are really just friends, then she wont be offended by seeing you with other girls. This also works really well to stir their emotions.
What a stupid question for a girl to ask, I mean what kind of a girl would give a guy a serious answer to that question? Other than "Not any more than a friend"
Andromax
Tell her the truth! You should never hesitate in situations like this and the joking was inappropriate as it must have taken her a lot of courage to ask this question. She put her pride on the line and you should be willing to do the same.
Show some confidence and if you like her, tell her so. NEVER explain or excuse your answer, don't add anything more, just say it and wait to see what she says or does.
Whenever I've answered "yes" to this question, we end up making out immediately after.
Show some confidence and if you like her, tell her so. NEVER explain or excuse your answer, don't add anything more, just say it and wait to see what she says or does.
Whenever I've answered "yes" to this question, we end up making out immediately after.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
SevenOne9
Don Juan
Personally, I'd just go for the kiss first and don't just 'say' you do (if you really do like her).
The DomMega
Don Juan
I'd just go "friends" w/ benefits on this one. If you've asked her the same question and nothings changed, then why should you change for her. You CAN have sex with your chick friends and have everything still be cool providing you don't over indulge. I wouldn't have a serious relationship with this girl. Well, I wouldn't have a serious relationship with anyone, but this girl in particular definitely not. She sounds a little too confused herself. I'd just take it for what it is, make some sex happen, and leave it at that. I mean what are chick friends to a player if you've never had sex with them at some point? 