This girl that i have been friends with for a while now asked me if I like her. I told her that i like ber a while before though (before I bumped into this site). When i told her it didn't change anything between us though. Now i think she has doughts. Today when she asked me if i liked her I said, "Your just like every other girl. Why can i just have a girl for a friend. Am I so cursed with beauty?" She told me why do i have to take it for a joke. She wants a serious answer. What do i say? Yes or No. Oh and she has a lot of guy friends to. Just something i think that might be of some significance.
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Yes or No?
- Thread starter Da_Shogun
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
First of all do you have feelings for her, do want to be with her? If so, don't tell her that you do.
If you enjoy spending time with her, then spend time with her. Initiate physical contact with her and see how she responds. Start with hugs, cuddle with her. But Not for too long, just give her a taste of it.
Basically, let your actions speak. Let her wonder if you like her or not. If you just tell her you are taking away a huge bit of mystery that works so well to your advantage. Maybe act like you like her one day, cuddling, etc. Then the next time you are supposed to hang out, tell her you cant make it for whatever reason. It will really get her thinking about you.
Basically, No dont tell her you like her. If you are really just friends, then she wont be offended by seeing you with other girls. This also works really well to stir their emotions.
What a stupid question for a girl to ask, I mean what kind of a girl would give a guy a serious answer to that question? Other than "Not any more than a friend"
Andromax
If you enjoy spending time with her, then spend time with her. Initiate physical contact with her and see how she responds. Start with hugs, cuddle with her. But Not for too long, just give her a taste of it.
Basically, let your actions speak. Let her wonder if you like her or not. If you just tell her you are taking away a huge bit of mystery that works so well to your advantage. Maybe act like you like her one day, cuddling, etc. Then the next time you are supposed to hang out, tell her you cant make it for whatever reason. It will really get her thinking about you.
Basically, No dont tell her you like her. If you are really just friends, then she wont be offended by seeing you with other girls. This also works really well to stir their emotions.
What a stupid question for a girl to ask, I mean what kind of a girl would give a guy a serious answer to that question? Other than "Not any more than a friend"
Andromax
Tell her the truth! You should never hesitate in situations like this and the joking was inappropriate as it must have taken her a lot of courage to ask this question. She put her pride on the line and you should be willing to do the same.
Show some confidence and if you like her, tell her so. NEVER explain or excuse your answer, don't add anything more, just say it and wait to see what she says or does.
Whenever I've answered "yes" to this question, we end up making out immediately after.
Show some confidence and if you like her, tell her so. NEVER explain or excuse your answer, don't add anything more, just say it and wait to see what she says or does.
Whenever I've answered "yes" to this question, we end up making out immediately after.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SevenOne9
Don Juan
Personally, I'd just go for the kiss first and don't just 'say' you do (if you really do like her).
The DomMega
Don Juan
I'd just go "friends" w/ benefits on this one. If you've asked her the same question and nothings changed, then why should you change for her. You CAN have sex with your chick friends and have everything still be cool providing you don't over indulge. I wouldn't have a serious relationship with this girl. Well, I wouldn't have a serious relationship with anyone, but this girl in particular definitely not. She sounds a little too confused herself. I'd just take it for what it is, make some sex happen, and leave it at that. I mean what are chick friends to a player if you've never had sex with them at some point? 