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Don Juan
Let's just let him use his tactics and we'll come back in 40 years, as a reunion of sorts, and see where he's at with his "yelling and screaming" =)
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mr.Sexy said:No wonder some of you can't get laid! Read history. Go buy the Financial Times or Economist tomorrow. Read about who shapes this planet. It sure isn't a bunch of limp wristed men or tough acting women. Nope. Just a bunch of hard a**ed men.
Ever hear of Hitler, Mussolini, Stalin, Ceausescu, Chavez, Lukashenko, Hussein, or hundreds of other leaders on this planet (ever hear recorded tapes of Nixon or Johnson?)? What about all the Fortune 500 CEO's who throw fits of rage every Friday afternoon so that midlevel management will have an extra crappy weekend? Ever hear of Bob Knight or Vince Lombardi? What about Patton? All these men have used rage as a tool for power.
98% of the people on this planet were born to follow. Freedom? Yeah, nice idea if people actually wanted freedom. To most men freedom is simply the right to look at pornotube clips after work. The opposite sex wants to be told what to do and when to do it.
Women yell and scream because you let them dominate your lives. You think women yell and scream around me? I think not. They yell and scream at you because they have no respect for you as a man. Take charge or be a b****.
Was she scared of me or flirting with me? Shows how little you know. A girl craves a man with power. These days most of you are more concerned with your abs than with power. The opposite sex uses and disrespects those that she feels lack power. You have been brainwashed into thinking nice cute boys win. They don't. Only on TV and in the movies. Life isn't so sweet, Sunshine!
And yes it does make me feel good to dominate those smaller than me. It is the food chain, Sunshine! Eat or be eaten. Does it feel good to be laughed at by girls? To be ignored by them? To have self-doubt around them? To wonder what is wrong with yourself? If you are not dominating - you are being dominated. There is no middle ground. Almost all of you are being dominated by anything that doesn't have a d***.
More like a super horny desperate loser?Mr.Sexy said:She starts to realize that I am more than just a horny desperate loser
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You are 16 years old! Already an expert on life, eh? You are like the annoying little pricks who are always touching and looking at my car. Hands OFF! Remember, any girl that you are chasing after would dump you in a second if she thought I would give her the time of day. Girls that live where you do don't often see beasts like me. Grrrrr!T-Roy said:Lmao. Here is why she thought it was ok for you to act like that.
*She thought you had a rough day. = Stress meaning she thought it was ok for you to be upset.
*You made her think you were some important hot shot and probably had a lot of money.
*She is most likely one of those clingy girls who want anything they can get.
Another question for you though is... Obviously on this site most people post about what their girls look like in the 1-10 rating system. What is she? A 2?
I really don't respect people like you. If I ever met you I'd be more liable to spit on you then listen to anything you had to say. (Unless you controlled my paycheck in which case I would do the most god-awful job ever.)
Said 16 year old has a better control of the English language than you do, dumbass.Mr.Sexy said:You are 16 years old! Already an expert on life, eh? You are like the annoying little pricks who are always touching and looking at my car. Hands OFF! Remember, any girl that you are chasing after would dump you in a second if she thought I would give her the time of day. Girls that live where you do don't often see beasts like me. Grrrrr!
Ratings? Since when did girls have numbers pasted on their foreheads? You are 16 and live in a place that I don't ever want to visit! 8 to you is probably 3 to me.
Spit on me? Sure, so tough on the Net. Once again, you are 16! Grow up. Yes, I probably would control your paycheck. Yes, you would probably work your a** off to please me. Everybody does. Fear and being laughed at are the two greatest motivators known to man.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i was taught that. surely others were also...Sun Tzu said:If only they were taught that, and if only they had the moral aptitude to understand that this behavior is fundamentally repulsive and abusive.
I am curious. Why the juvenile shots at me? Can't you cite examples? I give you dozens of people who have made a name for themselves using my techniques. I give concrete examples. What do you give? Name calling and immature rants. Results are what I base my life on. I get them and you don't. I think I hear Oprah calling you.KarmaSutra said:Said 16 year old has a better control of the English language than you do, dumbass.
You're trying to justify feminine behaviour to men and wonder why you're getting your ass handed to you?
I'm sure you were, and I'm glad there are a few of you left. My point, though, is that precious few are this way. Society teaches women that they are not accountable for their actions. Needless to say, I beg to differ with that teaching.penkitten said:i was taught that. surely others were also...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Quoth Mr. Sexy:Mr.Sexy said:I give you dozens of people who have made a name for themselves using my techniques. I give concrete examples.
Mr.Sexy said:Ever hear of Hitler, Mussolini, Stalin, Ceausescu, Chavez, Lukashenko, Hussein, or hundreds of other leaders on this planet (ever hear recorded tapes of Nixon or Johnson?)? What about all the Fortune 500 CEO's who throw fits of rage every Friday afternoon so that midlevel management will have an extra crappy weekend? Ever hear of Bob Knight or Vince Lombardi? What about Patton? All these men have used rage as a tool for power.
Your confusion is as apparent as ever. I admire your consistency.iqqi said:While I personally do not agree with Mr. Sexy's actual principles, I have to say he does a great job of defending his viewpoints, and he is also doing a great job of handing his dissenters their a$$es back to them. Whoever says he doesn't have a good grasp of language or whatever... yeah right. His posts are extremely clear, to the point, and funny!
I find this whole thread amusing, and I wouldn't be surprised if Mr. Sexy is someone else's alias, and that this thread is just to make a point.
I could be wrong. He does cite examples.
I think people could indeed learn from this post, however, do NOT treat food service people like crap. They will crap in your food, some how, some way.
When I say learn, I don't mean completely literally. I really think this guy is bullsh!tting mostly. But his attitude is confident in a way most people will never grasp.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.