I scream and yell whenever anything really small goes wrong. I find that the ladies get right in line. People are no different than dogs. They all want an owner.
The key is to not always yell and scream. Be extremely kind one moment but BAM! Change pace. Start yelling, screaming, and demanding when the smallest of things goes wrong. Don't do it if something really big goes wrong. It is important that it is something really small. Most people need to be broken down. The biggest lie out there is that you should treat everyone with respect. Try doing that. Then try treating people my way. Compare the difference. You will be surprised.
Example. Just today I had an espress con panna. Anway, the espresso was poorly pulled. It had an acidic taste to it. So when the waitress comes to my table I yell at her. I tell her how I will never come to the cafe again if this is what I get. People were turning and looking at us. I didn't care. I kept right at it. Before you know it she gives me a good espresso con panna, a free slice of cake, and starts to flirt with me.
The key is to not always yell and scream. Be extremely kind one moment but BAM! Change pace. Start yelling, screaming, and demanding when the smallest of things goes wrong. Don't do it if something really big goes wrong. It is important that it is something really small. Most people need to be broken down. The biggest lie out there is that you should treat everyone with respect. Try doing that. Then try treating people my way. Compare the difference. You will be surprised.
Example. Just today I had an espress con panna. Anway, the espresso was poorly pulled. It had an acidic taste to it. So when the waitress comes to my table I yell at her. I tell her how I will never come to the cafe again if this is what I get. People were turning and looking at us. I didn't care. I kept right at it. Before you know it she gives me a good espresso con panna, a free slice of cake, and starts to flirt with me.