me and a girl had a year relationship. i messed up alot of times becuase i promised 2 be faithful to her but i had sex with 2 girls and messed around with about 5 others during that year. I told her about afew but not all. you know once a dj its hard to stop lol. But anyways we recently broke up becuase she doesnt get the feelings for me she used to a.k.a i just want to be friends. She still wants to talk to me and sit with me alone and **** at lunch like we would every once in a rare time during the relationship. What does this mean? Im getting mixed signals becuase she claims she is over me 100% but still wants to talk all the time and all the type of stuff you would in a relationship. I want another chance to be in a relationship with her but i dont know how to take upon that. What should i do. drop contact, talk to again in afew months if so how many? keep contact(an do what?). Im asking for you guy's advice on this becuase i havent been in this situation before. I plan on getting back into the feild. The last 5 months of the relationship I was faithful so you know my DJ skills rusted up. Give me some tips for a fast recovery with it and what to do about the relationship. Thanks!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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