me and a girl had a year relationship. i messed up alot of times becuase i promised 2 be faithful to her but i had sex with 2 girls and messed around with about 5 others during that year. I told her about afew but not all. you know once a dj its hard to stop lol. But anyways we recently broke up becuase she doesnt get the feelings for me she used to a.k.a i just want to be friends. She still wants to talk to me and sit with me alone and **** at lunch like we would every once in a rare time during the relationship. What does this mean? Im getting mixed signals becuase she claims she is over me 100% but still wants to talk all the time and all the type of stuff you would in a relationship. I want another chance to be in a relationship with her but i dont know how to take upon that. What should i do. drop contact, talk to again in afew months if so how many? keep contact(an do what?). Im asking for you guy's advice on this becuase i havent been in this situation before. I plan on getting back into the feild. The last 5 months of the relationship I was faithful so you know my DJ skills rusted up. Give me some tips for a fast recovery with it and what to do about the relationship. Thanks!
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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
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