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[steve_erkle]

So i started approaching about a month and a half ago and stopped in late august (long story) but while i was approaching i was feeling really good and became much more social. However from not approaching for a few weeks i went back to my old ways and it got me thinking. I shouldn't need approaching to be happy. When people say you need to develop inner game.. does that come from approaching? what i mean is that, i was becoming comfortable socially, confident.. etc. So was i developing inner game?

 

[steve_erkle]

bump..
is my original question hard to understand? it was hard to put into words.

 

[TheBaconator]

"Did I do that?"

 

[steve_erkle]

"Did I do that?"

Huh? lol

 

[daygameguy]

So i started approaching about a month and a half ago and stopped in late august (long story) but while i was approaching i was feeling really good and became much more social. However from not approaching for a few weeks i went back to my old ways and it got me thinking. I shouldn't need approaching to be happy. When people say you need to develop inner game.. does that come from approaching? what i mean is that, i was becoming comfortable socially, confident.. etc. So was i developing inner game?

Look dude, for me, ALL my inner game came from approaching many many times, creeping some girls out, then getting good, getting #closes, getting dates, making more friends etc.

When you meet new people (guys or girls) and they LIKE you, it obviously adds to your inner game. This doesn't mean you should DEPEND on getting validation from THEM all the time. But, socializing in any shape or form, is a boost to personality and inner game.

I hope this answers your question. cheers!