To get a girl, you need to TRICK her into feeling attraction for you. That involves lying, stealing, cheating, being someone else, faking confidence, whatever it takes. Everyone embellishes their resume, stretches the truth or flat out lies. This is the only way. You must of course follow the rules of ATTRACTION to get her attracted to you. After she is ATTRACTED to you and you KNOW that she is.... YOU need to..... RAPE. I'll say it again. RAPE the girl both physically and mentally. Yeah I said it! Since the male is supposed to be the lead, then by definition we ARE rapist. You have to FORCE her to move the relationship to the next level. You have to DRAG her along kicking and screaming UNTIL SHE EITHER BAILS or gives in to her attraction. Thats it, in a nutshell. This represents the work needed to get the first FVCK. After that, you may need to continue the masquerade and mix it up to keep things interesting.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yeah I said it, delete it if you want to but its the truth.
- Thread starter Silex
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Talk about an interesting stream of consciousness...
~attrACTION~
Banned
Did they just let you out?
J/k. I actually think I get what you're saying...except not really. This all makes sense if you're ugly or have "special" problems. Sorry, but I don't fit into that category. Have fun raping though! LOL.
Aprenti$playa&pimp
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what he said~attrACTION~ said:
Did they just let you out?
J/k. I actually think I get what you're saying...except not really. This all makes sense if you're ugly or have "special" problems. Sorry, but I don't fit into that category. Have fun raping though! LOL.
Yankee.Hotel.Foxtrot
Don Juan
No.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Master Don Juan
As horrible as it sounds...I found it fcukin hilarious! hahahahahaSilex said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Consider this fellas, this is some of our competition....
Sarge on!
Sarge on! People. People. let me be clear. I am NOT saying to RAPE the girl in a literal sense, even though I did say physically. (I have actually had a girl TELL ME SHE LIKES TO BE "RAPPED"!) Code word: DOMINATED. THAT IS WHAT I'M GETTING AT HERE PEOPLE!
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oh... well why didn't you say so? All you had to say was be more assertive AND aggressive. But when you say to "Rape Her"....Silex said:
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
you're an idiot
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'm trying to make a connection here. There is a thing called figure of speech in the english language. Not every phase is meant to be taken literally. If you READ my first post and UNDERSTOOD IT, I was using words like FORCE and DRAG to draw parallels to an actual rape. But the words themselves are not meant to be taken literally.