"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Yay or Nay?

el hombre 44

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I have got a question that needs to be answered...please.

So theres this one girl that is on my bus and she's like a HB9. From what I have noticed, she is one of the strong silent types, and isn't the one that talks to people all day long, like any other HB. BTW she is a junior and I'm a freshman. So that day on the bus I go up to her and sit by her. She is in my lunch period so I told her she looked familiar, and she responded. I told her my name, and gave her a light handshake (Note that she didn't tell me her name for some reason). I could tell that she was pretty nervous and stunned that I had come up to her and I don't know if she knew what to do, like I said she is pretty shy. I just started a regular conversation and all that, everything was going good I guess. I was mostly carrying the conversation. BTW she said that I looked older than my age, so that was a plus. Her stop came so she said bye and all. Ok, I think i did pretty good. (Keep in mind that this was my first ever cold approach).

The next day in school I see her around. I try to make eye contact with her but for some reason she looks away. It might be because she is shy or isnt interested? I don't know what I should do. Should I just completely stop talking to her or should I approach her again? Im pretty confused, and would like some help.

Someone reply with lengthy advice lol....appreciated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DaKidS3

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My take is that she isn't interested in you. An HB9 that is 2 years older than you probably will not be interested in you. Sorry.

Most girls in HS want older guys, not younger ones.
 
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