"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yay or Nay?

el hombre 44

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I have got a question that needs to be answered...please.

So theres this one girl that is on my bus and she's like a HB9. From what I have noticed, she is one of the strong silent types, and isn't the one that talks to people all day long, like any other HB. BTW she is a junior and I'm a freshman. So that day on the bus I go up to her and sit by her. She is in my lunch period so I told her she looked familiar, and she responded. I told her my name, and gave her a light handshake (Note that she didn't tell me her name for some reason). I could tell that she was pretty nervous and stunned that I had come up to her and I don't know if she knew what to do, like I said she is pretty shy. I just started a regular conversation and all that, everything was going good I guess. I was mostly carrying the conversation. BTW she said that I looked older than my age, so that was a plus. Her stop came so she said bye and all. Ok, I think i did pretty good. (Keep in mind that this was my first ever cold approach).

The next day in school I see her around. I try to make eye contact with her but for some reason she looks away. It might be because she is shy or isnt interested? I don't know what I should do. Should I just completely stop talking to her or should I approach her again? Im pretty confused, and would like some help.

Someone reply with lengthy advice lol....appreciated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DaKidS3

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My take is that she isn't interested in you. An HB9 that is 2 years older than you probably will not be interested in you. Sorry.

Most girls in HS want older guys, not younger ones.
 
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