"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yay or Nay?

el hombre 44

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I have got a question that needs to be answered...please.

So theres this one girl that is on my bus and she's like a HB9. From what I have noticed, she is one of the strong silent types, and isn't the one that talks to people all day long, like any other HB. BTW she is a junior and I'm a freshman. So that day on the bus I go up to her and sit by her. She is in my lunch period so I told her she looked familiar, and she responded. I told her my name, and gave her a light handshake (Note that she didn't tell me her name for some reason). I could tell that she was pretty nervous and stunned that I had come up to her and I don't know if she knew what to do, like I said she is pretty shy. I just started a regular conversation and all that, everything was going good I guess. I was mostly carrying the conversation. BTW she said that I looked older than my age, so that was a plus. Her stop came so she said bye and all. Ok, I think i did pretty good. (Keep in mind that this was my first ever cold approach).

The next day in school I see her around. I try to make eye contact with her but for some reason she looks away. It might be because she is shy or isnt interested? I don't know what I should do. Should I just completely stop talking to her or should I approach her again? Im pretty confused, and would like some help.

Someone reply with lengthy advice lol....appreciated.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DaKidS3

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My take is that she isn't interested in you. An HB9 that is 2 years older than you probably will not be interested in you. Sorry.

Most girls in HS want older guys, not younger ones.
 
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