"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm talking to this girl on msn messenger alright. We both have volleyball practice in different gyms at the same school. I come online.

I'll just skip ahead to the real part. Her msn name is i.l.o.v.e.y.o.u I dont think it has any reference to me.

me: I just noticed your name
her:lol
me: I know you love me, who doesnt?
her: u no it's hard not to.
me: Yeah I know you do. I can see it in the way you type :p
her: lol it's true

me: So, who do you love?
her: you, i thought we already discussed this?
me: I'm just playin around with you
me:nah but I was just curious
her:...
her:I don't think anyone
me: besides me I already know that
her: ya

me: no dude floating in your mind?
me: besides me of course, I already knew that
her:..hm...ya besides you
me: that didnt make sense
her: i dunno no guys ever talk to me so why would they like me?
me: Well i did for a while, but not really anymore
her: sorry that i dont feel the same way but your a cool guy
me: no no I know, no hard feelings I know. More than one fish in the ocean.
her: ya alot better and cooler fish in the ocean than me for you.
me: never know unless you take risks.
me: ah so far your the coolest
her: lol thanks youll find someone cooler trust me than you'll forget all about me.
me: hey don't rule anything out completely
her: o ok
me: hey you never know, keep your options open hey
her: lol
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So that was the convo. What do you think I did wrong, and is there any chance I could get out of the friend zone with her? Thanks guys, I appreciate it.

Dave
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tom121

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"would you love as more than friend?"

be straight up


nevermind the alcoholic here keke :D
 
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Yes you did good. Attaboy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That woman seems damn boring and with low self-steem!!!!

:mad:
 
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Originally posted by AFK Protector
her: yeah...uh huh...ya you..

me: hey the last time I saw someone as excited as you, she was in a coma.
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She's not interested.
 
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FreeStyleZ

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didnt mean to quote you, whoops. My response was directed at the poster.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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