"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Yay or Nay?

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I'm talking to this girl on msn messenger alright. We both have volleyball practice in different gyms at the same school. I come online.

I'll just skip ahead to the real part. Her msn name is i.l.o.v.e.y.o.u I dont think it has any reference to me.

me: I just noticed your name
her:lol
me: I know you love me, who doesnt?
her: u no it's hard not to.
me: Yeah I know you do. I can see it in the way you type :p
her: lol it's true

me: So, who do you love?
her: you, i thought we already discussed this?
me: I'm just playin around with you
me:nah but I was just curious
her:...
her:I don't think anyone
me: besides me I already know that
her: ya

me: no dude floating in your mind?
me: besides me of course, I already knew that
her:..hm...ya besides you
me: that didnt make sense
her: i dunno no guys ever talk to me so why would they like me?
me: Well i did for a while, but not really anymore
her: sorry that i dont feel the same way but your a cool guy
me: no no I know, no hard feelings I know. More than one fish in the ocean.
her: ya alot better and cooler fish in the ocean than me for you.
me: never know unless you take risks.
me: ah so far your the coolest
her: lol thanks youll find someone cooler trust me than you'll forget all about me.
me: hey don't rule anything out completely
her: o ok
me: hey you never know, keep your options open hey
her: lol
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So that was the convo. What do you think I did wrong, and is there any chance I could get out of the friend zone with her? Thanks guys, I appreciate it.

Dave
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tom121

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"would you love as more than friend?"

be straight up


nevermind the alcoholic here keke :D
 
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Yes you did good. Attaboy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Iguana

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That woman seems damn boring and with low self-steem!!!!

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
her: yeah...uh huh...ya you..

me: hey the last time I saw someone as excited as you, she was in a coma.
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She's not interested.
 
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FreeStyleZ

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didnt mean to quote you, whoops. My response was directed at the poster.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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