"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yay, I finally got 2 chicks numbers
- Thread starter JPlaya
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
serDUDE
Don Juan
if you can't do this go out with a friend that you like to have fun and right when you are feeling great dial the number or write them message
after you set up the date go and take some more numbers...or hit on girls few hours before the date....
perseverance
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Most women are starting to pick up on this and are refusing to play ball. Just head over to a dating site with a large base of women posting and you will see this pretty much the case.Espi said:
JPlaya, call whenever you want to mate and just relax.
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pinhas said:
...JPlaya said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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When you have no game the problem is getting numbers.
Once you solve the problem with getting #'s, more problems come such as
flaking, etc.
Once you solve flaking & get a date, attraction is key
Once you get attraction....I think you get the idea. Getting phone numbers isn't representative of banging girls. It's the beginning to a possible lay.