"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yay, I finally got 2 chicks numbers
- Thread starter JPlaya
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
serDUDE
Don Juan
if you can't do this go out with a friend that you like to have fun and right when you are feeling great dial the number or write them message
after you set up the date go and take some more numbers...or hit on girls few hours before the date....
perseverance
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Most women are starting to pick up on this and are refusing to play ball. Just head over to a dating site with a large base of women posting and you will see this pretty much the case.Espi said:
JPlaya, call whenever you want to mate and just relax.
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pinhas said:
...JPlaya said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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When you have no game the problem is getting numbers.
Once you solve the problem with getting #'s, more problems come such as
flaking, etc.
Once you solve flaking & get a date, attraction is key
Once you get attraction....I think you get the idea. Getting phone numbers isn't representative of banging girls. It's the beginning to a possible lay.