"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yay, I finally got 2 chicks numbers
- Thread starter JPlaya
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
serDUDE
Don Juan
if you can't do this go out with a friend that you like to have fun and right when you are feeling great dial the number or write them message
after you set up the date go and take some more numbers...or hit on girls few hours before the date....
perseverance
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Most women are starting to pick up on this and are refusing to play ball. Just head over to a dating site with a large base of women posting and you will see this pretty much the case.Espi said:
JPlaya, call whenever you want to mate and just relax.
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pinhas said:
...JPlaya said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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When you have no game the problem is getting numbers.
Once you solve the problem with getting #'s, more problems come such as
flaking, etc.
Once you solve flaking & get a date, attraction is key
Once you get attraction....I think you get the idea. Getting phone numbers isn't representative of banging girls. It's the beginning to a possible lay.