"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yay, I finally got 2 chicks numbers
- Thread starter JPlaya
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
serDUDE
Don Juan
if you can't do this go out with a friend that you like to have fun and right when you are feeling great dial the number or write them message
after you set up the date go and take some more numbers...or hit on girls few hours before the date....
perseverance
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Most women are starting to pick up on this and are refusing to play ball. Just head over to a dating site with a large base of women posting and you will see this pretty much the case.Espi said:
JPlaya, call whenever you want to mate and just relax.
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pinhas said:
...JPlaya said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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When you have no game the problem is getting numbers.
Once you solve the problem with getting #'s, more problems come such as
flaking, etc.
Once you solve flaking & get a date, attraction is key
Once you get attraction....I think you get the idea. Getting phone numbers isn't representative of banging girls. It's the beginning to a possible lay.