"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yall ever smashed an older woman??

THEYOUNGONE

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Yall ever smashed an older woman..?


Just started working in this plant last tuesday,all the young bitches are on 1 st shift, my shift is full of dudes and like 5 old bitches. its this older ***** thats about 59 with a big ass, im talking old lady got a body like a young *****...the ***** is reeaaal friendly,its like other young dudes on the line, but i peeped their extra friendly with her,you know that "Coworker" vibe, they be playing with her, she be playing back, But whats funny is these same niggas be telling me how thick she is,ect. Even the older cats thats around her age be telling me how thickk she is, but im saying to myself yall niggas never tried to smash?? I asked one of them why they never went at her they was like "nahh"...my first week their (last week), i never said none to her , just playing it cool, working being " The new guy". So friday, i noticed i was in her area talking to another dude thats a temp like me, i noticed the ***** kept wanting me to see her, i could see and feel her looking my way to see if i was looking at her. Before work she saw me outside and spoke(Friendly speak), then about15 min later at the shift meeting she walked in and saw me again and Spoke again, all that **** is choosing to me. So i tried her on some friendly ass **** to test the waters, walked up to her and asked her whats her name, she told me,then told her she was real pretty (Lying), she said thank you and i asked if she was married..she laughed and said yes. And i went about my way. Then i noticed after that she wouldn't even look my way like she was uneasy, as if i scared her, one time that night after break she walked passed looking down (Not completely but as if she was uneasy). Me being a temp, these folks been on this job for like 15 years and more, i aint planning on staying here no more than a month,im tryna smash this *****..lol...i think i came on to strong and direct. These other niggas is playin...they in her friendzone...im gone go against the grain...anyone of yalll ever smashed a chicked thats 50+ ??? How you go about doing it? Were you direct or did you have to jump through alot of hoops??? Let me know some
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Oldest chick I've smashed was 50. This happened a couple months ago and I'm 26.
 

lizardking82

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Yall ever smashed an older woman..?


Just started working in this plant last tuesday,all the young bitches are on 1 st shift, my shift is full of dudes and like 5 old bitches. its this older ***** thats about 59 with a big ass, im talking old lady got a body like a young *****...the ***** is reeaaal friendly,its like other young dudes on the line, but i peeped their extra friendly with her,you know that "Coworker" vibe, they be playing with her, she be playing back, But whats funny is these same niggas be telling me how thick she is,ect. Even the older cats thats around her age be telling me how thickk she is, but im saying to myself yall niggas never tried to smash?? I asked one of them why they never went at her they was like "nahh"...my first week their (last week), i never said none to her , just playing it cool, working being " The new guy". So friday, i noticed i was in her area talking to another dude thats a temp like me, i noticed the ***** kept wanting me to see her, i could see and feel her looking my way to see if i was looking at her. Before work she saw me outside and spoke(Friendly speak), then about15 min later at the shift meeting she walked in and saw me again and Spoke again, all that **** is choosing to me. So i tried her on some friendly ass **** to test the waters, walked up to her and asked her whats her name, she told me,then told her she was real pretty (Lying), she said thank you and i asked if she was married..she laughed and said yes. And i went about my way. Then i noticed after that she wouldn't even look my way like she was uneasy, as if i scared her, one time that night after break she walked passed looking down (Not completely but as if she was uneasy). Me being a temp, these folks been on this job for like 15 years and more, i aint planning on staying here no more than a month,im tryna smash this *****..lol...i think i came on to strong and direct. These other niggas is playin...they in her friendzone...im gone go against the grain...anyone of yalll ever smashed a chicked thats 50+ ??? How you go about doing it? Were you direct or did you have to jump through alot of hoops??? Let me know some
She's 50. You be direct and if she doesn't wanna do that, you go cold turkey on her completely. Try to do the offer couple of days before you leave the job so that it doesn't get awkward.
 

AlphaNate

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Yes. 49, relatively hot, and married. The sex wasn't good.

After I dropped her, she started buying me ****. Wouldn't recommend it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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EmotionalGeek

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I wanted once but after first date I decided she does not turn me on so I radio silenced her. She was 42.
 
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