"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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y i suck: dont bother reading

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after all the improvement I thought I had been doing since discovering pu...

i wen't out this weekend with some people in which I regretted going...sooooo in making the best of it I just got pretty drunk and not really worrying about picking up girls

out of the blue this hb10 ( I spotted her earlier but she had like 6 guys hanging around her) starts dancing right in front of my table and out of nowhere extends her hand out to me for a dance

lets just say that things wen't less than great...
maybee cause I was taken by suprise?
or just the alcohol was screwing me over?

either way my friends thought I was too aggressive and blew it *sigh*

this rant is just so everyone knows not to take my advice
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What's important is that you learned your lesson and hopefully you wont **** it all up for the next one.
 
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You know what? WHO CARES? You shouldn't care. You will never see her again,and in one weeks time, she will probably forget. No big deal. Drop it like it was a piece of **** and move on. Just know for next time.
 
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There is something to learn in every interaction.

...not really worrying about picking up girls...out of the blue this hb10 ... had like 6 guys hanging around her starts dancing right in front of my table and out of nowhere extends her hand out to me for a dance

She was hot for your indifference.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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to be honest when i wrote this post i wasn't sure why but now i guess i do...

i could care less about sleeping with that girl although it would have made for a better weekend

I guess i thought if I can pick up on girls that didn't give a single ioi then a girl that opens me should be super easy...however this might not be the case

and ur right on bible belt... i still am much more aware of my bl and social situation even when im not doing pu and suspected something like this

so yah i learned a lot...lets hope i can use it lol
 
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