Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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after all the improvement I thought I had been doing since discovering pu...

i wen't out this weekend with some people in which I regretted going...sooooo in making the best of it I just got pretty drunk and not really worrying about picking up girls

out of the blue this hb10 ( I spotted her earlier but she had like 6 guys hanging around her) starts dancing right in front of my table and out of nowhere extends her hand out to me for a dance

lets just say that things wen't less than great...
maybee cause I was taken by suprise?
or just the alcohol was screwing me over?

either way my friends thought I was too aggressive and blew it *sigh*

this rant is just so everyone knows not to take my advice
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's important is that you learned your lesson and hopefully you wont **** it all up for the next one.
 
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You know what? WHO CARES? You shouldn't care. You will never see her again,and in one weeks time, she will probably forget. No big deal. Drop it like it was a piece of **** and move on. Just know for next time.
 
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There is something to learn in every interaction.

...not really worrying about picking up girls...out of the blue this hb10 ... had like 6 guys hanging around her starts dancing right in front of my table and out of nowhere extends her hand out to me for a dance

She was hot for your indifference.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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to be honest when i wrote this post i wasn't sure why but now i guess i do...

i could care less about sleeping with that girl although it would have made for a better weekend

I guess i thought if I can pick up on girls that didn't give a single ioi then a girl that opens me should be super easy...however this might not be the case

and ur right on bible belt... i still am much more aware of my bl and social situation even when im not doing pu and suspected something like this

so yah i learned a lot...lets hope i can use it lol
 
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