"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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y i suck: dont bother reading

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after all the improvement I thought I had been doing since discovering pu...

i wen't out this weekend with some people in which I regretted going...sooooo in making the best of it I just got pretty drunk and not really worrying about picking up girls

out of the blue this hb10 ( I spotted her earlier but she had like 6 guys hanging around her) starts dancing right in front of my table and out of nowhere extends her hand out to me for a dance

lets just say that things wen't less than great...
maybee cause I was taken by suprise?
or just the alcohol was screwing me over?

either way my friends thought I was too aggressive and blew it *sigh*

this rant is just so everyone knows not to take my advice
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What's important is that you learned your lesson and hopefully you wont **** it all up for the next one.
 
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You know what? WHO CARES? You shouldn't care. You will never see her again,and in one weeks time, she will probably forget. No big deal. Drop it like it was a piece of **** and move on. Just know for next time.
 
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There is something to learn in every interaction.

...not really worrying about picking up girls...out of the blue this hb10 ... had like 6 guys hanging around her starts dancing right in front of my table and out of nowhere extends her hand out to me for a dance

She was hot for your indifference.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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to be honest when i wrote this post i wasn't sure why but now i guess i do...

i could care less about sleeping with that girl although it would have made for a better weekend

I guess i thought if I can pick up on girls that didn't give a single ioi then a girl that opens me should be super easy...however this might not be the case

and ur right on bible belt... i still am much more aware of my bl and social situation even when im not doing pu and suspected something like this

so yah i learned a lot...lets hope i can use it lol
 
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