"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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duke104

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Hey guys, ive been trying to put this ****y funny thing to use since ive heard how good it is with attracting women. ive been trying it out on this girl i know, and i feel like ive got the ****y part down, but im not sure about the funny part. heres a texting convo that i had with her last night:

me: hey were goin to the movies tonight you should come with
her: i have tons of homework sorry
me: i never said i was gonna invite you i just asked if you were interested

i feel like i got the ****y down but how can i had humor to something like that? thanks!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the comeback by you in the example is perfectly alright...i think you need to work on your body language.

some of the ****y funny statements are even fully ****y but the body language makes it funny....instead of taking it like a stereotypical technique, why not make it a little more natural by calling it "teasing" or "ball-busting"?
 

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duke104 said:
Hey guys, ive been trying to put this ****y funny thing to use since ive heard how good it is with attracting women. ive been trying it out on this girl i know, and i feel like ive got the ****y part down, but im not sure about the funny part. Here's a texting convo that i had with her last night:

me: hey were goin to the movies tonight you should come with
her: i have tons of homework sorry
me: i never said i was gonna invite you i just asked if you were interested

i feel like i got the ****y down but how can i had humor to something like that? thanks!
Yeah your problems are you are having a texting conversation for one. It's very hard to show in humor in texts. Things can be misinterpreted. Also, you said "come with" and then you said "i never said i was gonna invite you." You just did invite her by saying "come with."
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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