"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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****y & funny comment to make her c u

n00bPimp

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Here's something I've tried twice and has worked:
Now to do this you should already have the confident vibe going on. The grls i told this to- one i knew for 2 weeks the other one has been a friend for a long time but recently turned the ****y and funny on and its working like wonders. Ok so here it is
Sent them a txt messg saying "Im bored come entertain me hun."
chick 1 "I'll call u ok?" She came right after work
chick 2 "ok sure baby when do u want me there?"

Ciao!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i am me

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Not really c n f but pretty nice anyway. You got what you wanted so thats good enough
 

Sammo

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Originally posted by dearsappho
Only works on birds that want to, so you could have said anything and they would still have come.
Good point, the nature of your invite has no effect on wether or not she comes. The important thing is that there is an invite.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NotaGoatLover

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Originally posted by n00bPimp
"Im bored come entertain me hun."
....Pretty good..... It is very C & F........ It's saying that she's the entertainer.....and you only want her cause your bored......It's a line......you should test it out as a pickup line...lol

Isn't that what most girls do when they're bored?.....Tell some guy to entertain her...... ahhhhh
 

mazda

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what happens if she says "no you come over her or just plain "rejects you" or you wish
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by Sammo
Good point, the nature of your invite has no effect on wether or not she comes. The important thing is that there is an invite.
well no if she does not like you she still wont come round, but the nature of the invite will make a diffrence. Maybe less so in a text then real life but like the post i read yesterday stated, your feelings effect other people if you are confident she will have confidence in you and want to meet up.

which sounds better

"hey i was just thinking, would you like to meet up with me"

"hey lets meet up tomorow, write your number down for me on some paper"

point made!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DrSoSuave

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Well your phone request and success of her coming over is dependent on whether she enjoys your presence or not and trusts you.
 
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