"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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****y & funny comment to make her c u

n00bPimp

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Here's something I've tried twice and has worked:
Now to do this you should already have the confident vibe going on. The grls i told this to- one i knew for 2 weeks the other one has been a friend for a long time but recently turned the ****y and funny on and its working like wonders. Ok so here it is
Sent them a txt messg saying "Im bored come entertain me hun."
chick 1 "I'll call u ok?" She came right after work
chick 2 "ok sure baby when do u want me there?"

Ciao!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i am me

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Not really c n f but pretty nice anyway. You got what you wanted so thats good enough
 

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Originally posted by dearsappho
Only works on birds that want to, so you could have said anything and they would still have come.
Good point, the nature of your invite has no effect on wether or not she comes. The important thing is that there is an invite.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NotaGoatLover

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Originally posted by n00bPimp
"Im bored come entertain me hun."
....Pretty good..... It is very C & F........ It's saying that she's the entertainer.....and you only want her cause your bored......It's a line......you should test it out as a pickup line...lol

Isn't that what most girls do when they're bored?.....Tell some guy to entertain her...... ahhhhh
 

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what happens if she says "no you come over her or just plain "rejects you" or you wish
 

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Originally posted by Sammo
Good point, the nature of your invite has no effect on wether or not she comes. The important thing is that there is an invite.
well no if she does not like you she still wont come round, but the nature of the invite will make a diffrence. Maybe less so in a text then real life but like the post i read yesterday stated, your feelings effect other people if you are confident she will have confidence in you and want to meet up.

which sounds better

"hey i was just thinking, would you like to meet up with me"

"hey lets meet up tomorow, write your number down for me on some paper"

point made!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well your phone request and success of her coming over is dependent on whether she enjoys your presence or not and trusts you.
 
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