"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"****y-Funny & Busting"

PrinceBeavis

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Just got an e-mail from David D, about C/F and busting...

...Now, I've been known to joke with women similar to that. But here's the thing. I've got to be in the mood for this, and it has to be the right time. I know I will F*#k myself if I try to do something like this at the wrong time, or if I force it.

And that material. If I asked a woman "where she got that ugly dress," and she said "Old Navy," and I said "you were in the Navy?" she wouldn't think it funny, she would think I was a blithering IDIOT.

My point? ****y/funny, and some friendly busting? Absolutely! But to the point where I was being a prick, or sounding like a bufoon? Really now.

I mean, to do it the same way you would joke with buddies, sure, but there's a point where a buddy would want to kick my @ss, and a woman would want to see me get it kicked.

Seriously...how far is this sheit supposed to go?
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Zen Energy

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I don't got it TOTALLY figured out, but the thing with C/F is its more a matter of balance and not passing a certain boundary, once it hits your subconscious, it pours out with an almost perfect balance. 50% humor and 50% wiseass tactics. I for a while had a reputation for being a bit of a wiseass.....unfortunately, i started to become more boring than wet paint drying.
 

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PrinceBeavis said:
Whatsamatter? None of you "studs" got this figured out either?
Ouch that stings. Air quotes gets me every time.


If I asked a woman "where she got that ugly dress," and she said "Old Navy," and I said "you were in the Navy?" she wouldn't think it funny, she would think I was a blithering IDIOT.
Which part of this is ****y or funny let alone both? Kind of hard to be down on C&F when your example is neither.

My point? ****y/funny, and some friendly busting? Absolutely! But to the point where I was being a prick, or sounding like a bufoon? Really now.
If you're BEING A PRICK then it's not funny. Funny to her. Not you.
 

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PrinceBeavis said:
Just got an e-mail from David D, about C/F and busting...

...Now, I've been known to joke with women similar to that. But here's the thing. I've got to be in the mood for this, and it has to be the right time. I know I will F*#k myself if I try to do something like this at the wrong time, or if I force it.

And that material. If I asked a woman "where she got that ugly dress," and she said "Old Navy," and I said "you were in the Navy?" she wouldn't think it funny, she would think I was a blithering IDIOT.

My point? ****y/funny, and some friendly busting? Absolutely! But to the point where I was being a prick, or sounding like a bufoon? Really now.

I mean, to do it the same way you would joke with buddies, sure, but there's a point where a buddy would want to kick my @ss, and a woman would want to see me get it kicked.

Seriously...how far is this sheit supposed to go?
you can get away with lots of C&F if you never Qualify yourself. Remember women become attracted when they are frustrated a little, I know it makes no sense . until you see it a thousand times.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Myriad By Python

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I believe C/F should not be the main theme in an interaction. It should be just thrown in there like a spice. I really think a lot of girls (unless they're dumb.. or 14 yrs old) are too mature for C/F, I feel they want something more during an interaction.

My advice, start learning how to have fun with the girl rather than just busting on her the entire time.
 
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